I am the last person who should be writing a "How to" on dealing with issues. Reason being I have plenty of them myself. I have been so occupied with issues all the time that i have never been able to find time out of them in order to be able to live.
However, I dont understand why people around me, when faced with issues, leave them behind and run away.
I mean I have issues too. And how much so ever I tell myself i will give up, I have never been able to. Whatever I choose, I stick to it. Even if the choice would lead me to ruin. But why would the other more sorted individuals just flee at the sight of any problem?
For example, if a certain woman gets married and cannot settle with th fa,ily of her spouse, is she not supposed to talk her life out of the situation?
Or, if a certain another woman wishes out of her life, she should try and calm herself down and not create a havoc in everyone else's life.
If a certain woman thinks her sister doesn't love her anymore, she should either try to be more lovable and not not let the other sister love anyone else
If you fail in love, you dont quit your family, you dont cry yourself to tears all night, you dont begin feeling like the world has come to an end.
But then why do all these retards not understand.
The very same people who believe I'm insane.
If I am insane, what is wrong with you?
I generally do no believe in publice opinion. The Bible was written by the same folks who said that the earth is flat. So I should not be the one generalising everyone into the same bracket of people who fail in solving their issues. I am certain there are other people who do get along well with their issues; are on good / friendly terms and at times are even successful in parking them for a bit if not solving them completely. I have never come across such people though. But I hope that such species does exist.
As far as I am concerned, I firmly believe that I suck at solving problems. I have never been able to solve anything. However, I have tried. Failed miserably, multiple times. But tried. I doubt if that is something to be proud of. I mean there hasn't been any remarkable feat that I have achieved in the process. I have cried and wailed like a baby each time I have failed, sometimes I have even crossed all limits and sulked for years together. But I think that approach is way better than not even making an attempt and going weak in the knees every time confronted by anything.
I am certain my approach is not the best either.There has to be a little balance required. Sometimes, you just have to give up. As they say (yes, my favourite "they" - the random, the invalid, the imaginary "they") "Winners never quit, quitters never win, but those who never quit and never win are fools."
People, please, I request, please try and solve your issues. And start from planning to sort them in your head.
Anyways,
See ya around
However, I dont understand why people around me, when faced with issues, leave them behind and run away.
I mean I have issues too. And how much so ever I tell myself i will give up, I have never been able to. Whatever I choose, I stick to it. Even if the choice would lead me to ruin. But why would the other more sorted individuals just flee at the sight of any problem?
For example, if a certain woman gets married and cannot settle with th fa,ily of her spouse, is she not supposed to talk her life out of the situation?
Or, if a certain another woman wishes out of her life, she should try and calm herself down and not create a havoc in everyone else's life.
If a certain woman thinks her sister doesn't love her anymore, she should either try to be more lovable and not not let the other sister love anyone else
If you fail in love, you dont quit your family, you dont cry yourself to tears all night, you dont begin feeling like the world has come to an end.
But then why do all these retards not understand.
The very same people who believe I'm insane.
If I am insane, what is wrong with you?
I generally do no believe in publice opinion. The Bible was written by the same folks who said that the earth is flat. So I should not be the one generalising everyone into the same bracket of people who fail in solving their issues. I am certain there are other people who do get along well with their issues; are on good / friendly terms and at times are even successful in parking them for a bit if not solving them completely. I have never come across such people though. But I hope that such species does exist.
As far as I am concerned, I firmly believe that I suck at solving problems. I have never been able to solve anything. However, I have tried. Failed miserably, multiple times. But tried. I doubt if that is something to be proud of. I mean there hasn't been any remarkable feat that I have achieved in the process. I have cried and wailed like a baby each time I have failed, sometimes I have even crossed all limits and sulked for years together. But I think that approach is way better than not even making an attempt and going weak in the knees every time confronted by anything.
I am certain my approach is not the best either.There has to be a little balance required. Sometimes, you just have to give up. As they say (yes, my favourite "they" - the random, the invalid, the imaginary "they") "Winners never quit, quitters never win, but those who never quit and never win are fools."
People, please, I request, please try and solve your issues. And start from planning to sort them in your head.
Anyways,
See ya around
